Pay Yourself Like a Grown-Up: A Simple Owner Pay System That Stops the Guessing

If you’re a business owner and paying yourself feels like… vibes, you’re not alone.

Most people do one of these:

  • Pay themselves whatever is left (spoiler: there’s never anything left)

  • Randomly transfer money and hope taxes don’t show up angry

  • Avoid paying themselves because it feels “safer” to keep cash in the business

Here’s the problem: when your owner pay is a guess, everything else becomes a guess too—taxes, bills, spending, even whether you’re actually profitable.

So let’s fix it with a system that’s:

  • simple

  • repeatable

  • not based on panic

Why this matters

When owner pay isn’t structured, you usually end up with:

  • surprise tax bills

  • inconsistent cash flow

  • overdrafts or credit card float

  • stress every time payroll, rent, or quarterly estimates come up

A good owner pay system does two things:

  1. It pays you consistently

  2. It protects the business from you (lovingly)

The “4-Bucket” Owner Pay System

You can do this with separate bank accounts or with tracking buckets in your bookkeeping (bank accounts are easier for most people).

Bucket 1 — Operating (Bills + business spending)

This is where income lands and where expenses get paid.

Goal: Keep the business running without crossing your fingers.

Bucket 2 — Owner Pay

This is your “paycheck” bucket. Even if you’re not running payroll, you can still pay yourself on a schedule.

Goal: Predictable pay that doesn’t change every week.

Bucket 3 — Taxes

This is the “don’t touch it” bucket.

Goal: Taxes are boring because they’re already funded.

Bucket 4 — Buffer / Profit

This is your stability bucket. It stops every minor hiccup from becoming a financial emergency.

Goal: A cushion so you’re not living invoice-to-invoice.

If you want to add a 5th bucket later, make it “Sales Tax” (if you collect it). That money isn’t yours, so treat it like it’s radioactive.

Step-by-step: set it up in 30 minutes

Step 1) Pick your pay cadence

Choose one and commit:

  • weekly

  • every other week

  • twice a month

  • monthly

My strong opinion: biweekly is the sweet spot for most owners. It feels like a normal paycheck and keeps cash flowing.

Step 2) Decide how you’ll fund taxes

This is where people get sloppy, so keep it simple.

Pick one approach:

  • Option A (easy): Set aside a flat % of every deposit into the Tax bucket

  • Option B (more accurate): Use last year’s effective tax rate as a starting point and adjust after Q1

If you’re not sure what % to use, don’t guess wildly, just use a temporary number, then adjust once you look at Q1 results.

Step 3) Create your transfer rules

Every time money comes in (or once a week), split it into buckets.

Example:

  • Taxes: X%

  • Owner Pay: X%

  • Buffer/Profit: X%

  • The rest stays in Operating

The exact percentages depend on your business, your margins, and whether you’re catching up or starting fresh, so the system matters more than the “perfect” numbers.

Step 4) Put guardrails on yourself (this is the magic)

Two rules that reduce stress instantly:

  1. Owner Pay only comes from the Owner Pay bucket

  2. Taxes only come from the Tax bucket

If you start paying bills from the tax account “just this once,” the whole system collapses. (Ask me how I know from watching this movie 1,000 times.)

Step 5) Build a tiny buffer target

Start small:

  • first goal: $500–$1,000

  • next goal: two weeks of business expenses

  • longer goal: one month of business expenses

Buffer is what turns “ugh this month is tight” into “okay, we’re fine.”

Mini example

Let’s say a service business averages $12,000/month, but it’s uneven—some months are $8k, some are $18k. Without buckets, the owner pays themselves extra in a good month, then panics in a slow month and puts everything on a card.

With buckets, they pay themselves biweekly from the Owner Pay account, taxes are funded automatically, and the buffer grows slowly. Suddenly the slow month isn’t a crisis, it’s just a slow month.

That’s the whole point.

If you want help setting your owner pay system up based on your actual numbers (not generic internet advice), I can help you build a clean plan and make sure your bookkeeping supports it.

Book a call: https://calendly.com/sara-dunhambookkeepingservices

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